Japan Culture Shock

I could go on all day about the custom differences between the US and Japan. The Japanese are very stand-offish and not as touchy feely as us Americans.

However, today I found out (and confirmed through the internet) that tipping in any form (cab drivers, bar tenders, waitresses) is not customary. As a matter of fact, if you try to tip you are dishonoring yourself and them by suggesting they need the extra money.

Of course in Western style hotels and restaurants, it's probably okay and encouraged.

I found this link with hundreds of custom considerations: http://www.thejapanfaq.com/FAQ-Manners.html

How am I ever going to remember them all? Be polite, not loud, and observe....I think that'll get me through the first month until I start learning.