You're doing it wrong...

This post is for all the military families that will be in Japan in the future. No matter how you enjoy Japan there are hundreds of Americans living around you who will declare that you're doing the wrong thing...

Things I've actually heard said to people:

• You go off base too much.
• You go off base too little.
• Shop out in town more.
• Shop out in town less.
• Live offbase for a better experience.
• Live onbase for convenience.
• Don't take the kids there.
• The kids will love it there!
• Take the train.
• Don't take the train.

Here's the thing -- enjoy Japan however you feel most comfortable. Listen to other people for advice on where to go and what to do, but don't let anyone force you outside of your comfort zone. The first few months are extremely stressful and once you make it over that hump, you'll be more inclined to be more adventurous.

Everyone around you is going to have opinions for you on how you should be enjoying your time in Japan. Listen to them, but take everything with a grain of salt. Also, as you can see above, be prepared to hear a lot of statements that contradict one another. Do what is right for you.